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Friendship judged before it is offered, trust as something earned rather than assumed, and the observation — made repeatedly, across two millennia — that you become the company you keep.

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  1. The feeling of being understood is especially sweet to the solitary souls who are forever longing for “understanding.”
    Carl JungThe Theory of Psychoanalysis, Ch. IX: The Therapeutical Principles of Psychoanalysis · 1915
  2. Recompense injury with justice, and recompense kindness with kindness.
    ConfuciusThe Analects of Confucius, Book XIV, Chapter XXXVI
  3. Virtue is not left to stand alone. He who practises it will have neighbors.
    ConfuciusThe Analects of Confucius, Book IV, Chapter XXV
  4. One who seeks friendship for favourable occasions, strips it of all its nobility.
    SenecaMoral Letters to Lucilius, Letter 9: On Philosophy and Friendship · 65
  5. You can always find reasons to leave. You just need to find more reasons to stay.
  6. Not a mother, not a father will do so much, nor any other relative; a well-directed mind will do us greater service.
    BuddhaDhammapada, Chapter 3: Thought, verse 43
  7. Don't marry someone who doesn't understand that you need to work, or sees your work as competition for your attention.
  8. Let a man overcome anger by love, let him overcome evil by good; let him overcome the greedy by liberality, the liar by truth!
    BuddhaDhammapada, Chapter 17: Anger, verse 223
  9. Man is by nature adapted to a social existence.
    AristotleNicomachean Ethics, Book I · 340 BC
  10. Between Husband and Wife there is thought to be Friendship by a law of nature: man being by nature disposed to pair, more than to associate in Communities.
    AristotleNicomachean Ethics, Book VIII · 340 BC
  11. You don't have to be mean when you have a real point to make. In fact, you don't want to. If you have something real to say, being mean just gets in the way.
  12. Reproach and hatred are always futile attempts to free one’s self apparently from the parents, but in reality from one’s own hindering longing for the parents.
    Carl JungPsychology of the Unconscious, Part II · 1916
  13. Conflicts are essential for great relationships because they are the means by which people determine whether their principles are aligned and resolve their differences.
    Ray DalioPrinciples by Ray Dalio (2011 free edition), Part 3: Summary and Table of Principles
  14. Regard your soldiers as your children, and they will follow you into the deepest valleys; look on them as your own beloved sons, and they will stand by you even unto death.
    Sun TzuThe Art of War, Ch. X: Terrain · 500 BC
  15. I believe the most important decision in your life is who you choose as your life partner.
    Ray DalioPrincipled Perspectives: Long Island University Commencement Speech · 2026
  16. I don’t think about legacy much. I just think about being able to get up every day and go in and hang around these great people and hopefully create something that other people will love as much as we do.
    Steve JobsD5: All Things Digital Conference — Steve Jobs and Bill Gates interview transcript · 2007
  17. There are many nights I sleep alone. I don't have to, but I do.
    Elon MuskLex Fridman Podcast #400 — Elon Musk: War, AI, Aliens, Politics, Physics, Video Games, and Humanity · 2023
  18. The most selfish thing in the world you can do is to be generous.
    Kevin Kelly"101 Additional Advices", kk.org · 2024
  19. The more I act like my normal self on dates, the happier I am with the outcome.
    Ali Abdaal"12 Life Lessons from 2021", aliabdaal.com
  20. As a rule, we most prefer to say yes to the requests of someone we know and like.
    Robert CialdiniInfluence: The Psychology of Persuasion, ch. 5 "Liking" · 2007
  21. Asking for someone’s advice is an expression of trust — that’s why it’s intimidating.
    Scott GallowayNo Mercy / No Malice: The Algebra of Decisions · 2022
  22. At my age, I've managed to weed out most of the jerks and I don't work with them at all.
    David SinclairThe Joe Rogan Experience #2537 · 2026
  23. The rule says that we should try to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us.
    Robert CialdiniInfluence: The Psychology of Persuasion, ch. 2 "Reciprocation" · 2007
  24. The number one thing that predicted longevity in those men was having a reliable partner.
    David SinclairThe Joe Rogan Experience #2537 · 2026

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